by
Jackie J
Given
no suitable Mistress could be found, that would be willing to take Milly
Brannigan to be their trainee personal maid, Mrs Burtonshaw had proposed to
fill the void and train Milly personally. There would be no shortage of positions
available for Milly Brannigan to be a lady’s maid, once trained, conditioned
and mentally prepared for such a position. Mrs Burtonshaw intermating that
given the training went well, and she was sure it would, she already had one
such position in mind for Milly.
If I wished to proceed and be trained to be a true lady’s maid by Mrs Burtonshaw, meaningful authenticity would be paramount. Mrs Burtonshaw used those words repeatedly when she initially told me of her proposal. Crestley House was obviously out of the question, being too familiar and distracting. Mrs Burtonshaw’s residence was at best modest, not at all suitable for a Mistress and her personal maid. Also, Mrs Burtonshaw was not wealthy, and a mistress could not be going cap in hand to her personal maid for funds, could she? Mrs Burtonshaw had the answer to resolve all these matters, to create the authentic environment for a mistress and her maid. For the Mistress to have access to the wealth that will reflect her position and for her maid to only have access to what she is given and no more. To experience the true dynamic of being the personal maid of a mistress, a maid must first understand then accept that she is totally dependent on the benevolence of her Mistress. There can be no pretence in this dependency aspect, which will be the cornerstone of the training, how else can meaningful authenticity to be achieved?